Safe Decisions walks you through real-situation scenarios — branching, specific, and based on what's actually happening to you — then turns your answers into an exportable, concrete safety plan instead of one more vague article to read.
Private. No account needed. Discreet by design.
You replay the conversation, the text message, the way they reacted, and you still can't land on an answer: is this normal relationship friction, or is this the kind of thing people mean when they say "red flag"? Articles about abuse tend to speak in generalities — "watch for controlling behavior," "trust your gut" — but they don't know your specific situation, and they definitely don't tell you what to actually do once you've named the problem.
That gap between "something feels wrong" and "here's my next concrete step" is where most people get stuck — sometimes for months. Safe Decisions closes it with scenarios that mirror what's really happening, and an output you can act on the same day.
Choose the situation closest to what you're facing — a comment, a pattern of behavior, an incident — and answer questions about what actually happened.
Each answer determines the next question, so the path adapts to your specific circumstances instead of forcing you into a generic checklist.
The scenario ends with a clear read on the situation and a concrete, exportable safety plan — specific actions, contacts, and next steps you can save or print.
Safe Decisions' scenarios are structured around recognized patterns from domestic violence safety planning practice — escalation indicators, coercive control tactics, and the kind of situational decision points advocates walk survivors through one-on-one. The decision-tree format exists because abstract red-flag lists don't map cleanly onto messy real situations; branching questions do. The goal isn't to diagnose or replace an advocate's judgment — it's to give you the same kind of structured thinking before you ever pick up the phone.
Less than a single co-pay — and unlike a search engine, it ends in a plan, not a wall of articles.
One-time payment. No subscription. Your scenarios and plans stay private, always.